Tuesday, September 23, 2014
Don't judge a book by its cover and learn
I am a walking sponge. Not like the cartoon character Spongebob, but a sponge. I am the type of person who gets influenced a lot by the people I am around. Through high school I always hung around the "weird" kids. The kids that weren't the most popular. I found out that these kids were the most accepting though. I didn't have to wear brand name clothing or have money in order to connect with them. I guess I was a weird kid myself. At our school, the classic stereotypes were huge. These were specially visible on the earlier years of high school. I never really felt like o fit in any clan really. Being Hispanic, I was expected to hang out with the other Hispanic students but I never had a connection. My interests were not the same as theirs. I wasn't super studious so that left me out of the nerds. I wasn't athletic so I wasn't a jock. I was never mean enough to be a bully. I didn't do drugs or drink, so that left out the partiers. I did school clubs and some sports such as key club, STUCCO, choir, tennis, soccer and multicultural club. I always felt like I had too much to offer to just stick to one clan so I tended to navigate between all of the clans. By my senior year, I literally talked to everyone. I've always enjoyed listening to others and helping them with their issues so I think that helped me connect with so many people. Out of all the people I spoke to, I always seemed to attain some characteristic from them. From the Hispanics I learned to be proud of me heritage. From the choir kids I learned to work in a team. From the popular kids I learned some social skills. From the artistic kids I learned creativity. With all that I had attained I managed to reach people in ways others couldn't. We all are multifaceted. There's more to us than what we let others see. I learned a lot about people that they usually wouldn't let anyone else know. I loved it. I still love that. With or without them knowing, I always took lessons from them. My social skills now lack a bit due to the lack of interaction with others but when I try I tend to get further than the usual weather talk. There's valuable lessons to learn from everyone. Don't judge a book by its cover, for in the end you'll be the one who is surprised and end up leaving with more than when you arrived. I'm a sponge because I learn from others and learn to appreciate new things. An open mind can lead you to greatness.
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I didn't get far into your blog after reading this post. It stuck out to me. This is true and I never thought of stereotypes in this way. I really like your perspective on things. Don't judge a book by its cover, learn from it. Once people let us in we can learn so many things and apply them to our lives. Although you didn't feel like you fit in in high school (who really does?) you at least learned from each person/group, which in my eyes, is your own way of fitting in!
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